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tibs
05-30-2007, 09:48 PM
PGR was doing a mission for a soldier in Chattanooga. I showed up not knowing what to expect - Im not a member. Fearful the nutjobs who called the family would show up I was very hesitant to go - I have a very bad temper.

I held a flag for almost 2 hours and it was hot, but worth it seeing the family react to us as they pulled in. People would honk and wave as they drove by. I saw about 10 people on the street holding flags. Then we were asked to roll up the flags and get ready to escort. I moved back behind the funeral home and chatted with a few fellow veterans and we then went silent for the loading of the casket, and the family getting in the car. I started to choke up.

We had about 200 bikes there, over a dozen police bikes, numerous cars, and two interstates to go over. Even the Sheriff was there on his own time riding.

We started up, and out we went. What happened next had me in tears for the entire 30 minute procession. The streets were lined with people of all ages, cars stopped in the middle of the road, people saluting, it floored me. Then we got on I-75 heading to I-24 to downtown. Every - and I mean EVERY overpass was filled with people holding flags and signs thanking this fallen soldier. I was 6 bikes in front of the family and all I could think about was how proud I was to be there, and how much of an impact this had on the family. I didnt expect this. One over pass had two huge flags on it, then we moved off and to the Chattanooga National Cemetery. Two ladder trucks made an arch, and they had firemen saluting at the entrance.

The funeral had all the full honors, even the local police department had a bagpipe there doing amazing grace.

I was absoultey amazed, torn up, and floored at the support we saw. Nothing like this is on the news about the Americans honoring thier fallen soldiers - its always about the body counts or the sensationalism.

What did the local news have to say about this? They were basically whining because they couldnt video tape the funeral and the entire community had its rights denied by a bunch of bullies who stood in front of them with flags. Nothing about the thousands of people who spent thier hot afternoon standing on an overpass or lining the streets of Chattanooga honoring this hero.

Regardless of your view of war or politics, never underestimate the effect of save asses who were doing everything they could to explain why they couldnt get the sobbing mother on the 6oclock news when the family asked them to keep a distance from them and asked us to shield them by circling the entire funeral.

It was our fault they didnt get to record the family morning to satisfy thier bosses. One idiot anchor asked if the bikers were protesting the funeral - Yeah, Im sure 300 people standing in a circle with police, military, and others holding flags are protesting the funeral you morons.

In the end, I feel fortunate to be able to participate in this. I feel ashamed that the media acted this way and is making the story all about them.

Jams
05-30-2007, 11:50 PM
Out standing!

Keeper
05-31-2007, 06:04 AM
Keep up the good work Tibs.

buzzingstrings
05-31-2007, 06:33 AM
damn!
that story gave me goose bumps and made my eyes start leaking a bit!
I salute you, Tibs.

thedog
05-31-2007, 07:01 AM
Good story, Tibs. Thanks.

Road Glider
05-31-2007, 07:08 AM
damn!
that story gave me goose bumps and made my eyes start leaking a bit!
I salute you, Tibs.

Me too. Good job Tibs!

Fire46
05-31-2007, 07:13 AM
damn!
that story gave me goose bumps and made my eyes start leaking a bit!
I salute you, Tibs.

I'm not ashamed to admit it either. Good job Tibs...

BigAlsRK
05-31-2007, 07:15 AM
Keep up the good work....outstanding post.

8-Ball
05-31-2007, 11:16 AM
Tibs... you are a good man.

polarbear
05-31-2007, 12:36 PM
Way to go Tibs, it is difficult going through the day with a lump in your throat the whole time isn't it? I've done it twice and will never regret it.

The last one I attended the media spent more time taking pictures of the protesters than 350 flags flying around the funeral.


:polarbear:

Stone Cold
05-31-2007, 12:42 PM
Thanks man...

tibs
05-31-2007, 05:33 PM
I appreciate the comments, but the purpose of my post was more to share the experience and to encourage others of you to try one of these things out then to get a pat on the back. I appreciate it, but nothing you can say or do would ever equal the pride I had for being an American.

It really is amazing the support the community had for this young man.

If you ever have a chance to do one of these, do it. You will not regret it.

tibs
05-31-2007, 05:36 PM
www.roadrashmag.com (A local biker magazine who is hosting quite a few pictures of it) - click pictures and then click then click on the various pictures for the funeral. Im sure you will appreciate seeing them.

Hope its ok to post that link, if not, please remove the link and accept my appologies.

http://roadrashmagazine.smugmug.com/ this takes you to the picture galleries.

TalonChief
05-31-2007, 06:25 PM
Thanks, Tibs.

Jams
05-31-2007, 09:09 PM
I am conflicted over what the Patriot Guard is becoming around here and I sent this email to the State Captain last week.



Greetings,

Please do not take this wrong.

I am almost to the point of unsubscribing from the Montana State Patriot Guard e-mail list.

I did not sign up with the Patriot Guard to join a social group and buy T-shirts or ride in parades,,,, etc.

That sounds really nasty right?

Well I am sorry but the point I am trying to make is that it is my sincere desire and prayer that I never have to ride another mission because that would mean that one of our troops has lost their life.

I hope to never need to socialize with other riders at the expense of the loss of life of another warrior.

These missions are not something I look forward to. They are something I dread and do not wish to be reminded of.

As a State Captain can you look into this to see that the PG does not get out of hand and flourish as a social riding group that existence depends upon the deaths of heroes?

I would like to be there when needed to do what is right. But I hope I do not need to be part of a social group built around these circumstances.
I could join H.O.G. if I feel the need to join a social group.


Respectfully,

I have been recieving 10-20 emails per month from the Montana Chapter and 99% of them are about folks getting together for a ride or top sell T-Shirts with a Montana PG logo for a planned summer get together and to ride in parades.
Every time I see one these emails in my inbox my gut tightens thinking that another warrior has died and it pisses me off that it is nothing but social chatter.

Am I making too much of this or what?

Scabbydoo
05-31-2007, 11:05 PM
Good job Tibs.

TimmyD
06-14-2007, 08:56 AM
I am conflicted over what the Patriot Guard is becoming around here and I sent this email to the State Captain last week.

I have been recieving 10-20 emails per month from the Montana Chapter and 99% of them are about folks getting together for a ride or top sell T-Shirts with a Montana PG logo for a planned summer get together and to ride in parades.
Every time I see one these emails in my inbox my gut tightens thinking that another warrior has died and it pisses me off that it is nothing but social chatter.

Am I making too much of this or what?
Jams, no you are not 'making too much of this'.
I am a PGR member, but haven't done a ride in over a year. I live near DC and Arlington National Cemetery. It seems like there is a mission going on at least once a week to honor a fallen soldier of either this recent conflict or from past wars. One time, I did 3 or 4 missions in one month. Missing that much time at work did have detrimental consequences. Family issues arose over the past year that prevented me from doing any missions because I was taking time off to take care of the family.
You said it best when you stated, "These missions are not something I look forward to. They are something I dread and do not wish to be reminded of." Missions are NOT done for any reasons but to honor a fallen warrior and allow the grieving family the privacy they deserve.
I can say much more, but need to collect my thoughts.

Jams
06-14-2007, 09:08 AM
Thanx Tim,
I received a email reply back and he agreed with me for the most part but then explained why riders need the support of fellowship around these missions.

I can agree to a point and that point is when the sole purpose of being a PG rider requires the loss of life of a hero so we have a reason to get together.