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If it hasn't left your mind after all this time, it probably won't until you resolve it one way or another.
There's no doubt on my part that you'll handle it decently and tactfully. I wish you a satisfying outcome... |
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where can I order a drinking monkey?
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Call Giggles, she has a loaner.
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Let me preface this by saying that it's coming from a parent of two adopted children whose biological parents gave them up and who struggles constantly with how to explain that to the kids without them feeling unwanted or inferior.
I'm going to throw out the suggestion that the biological mother's reaction is one that highlights an incredible amount of guilt over her actions and a lack of emotional maturity to effectively deal with that guilt. Not knowing the circumstances when those actions took place I can't say for sure but it sure seems like that on the surface. In our case it was crushing poverty that landed the kids in the orphanage. A trip to see it a few years back really helped as the kids saw that their birth mothers put them in a really nice place where they had a better chance at success. Go with your heart, slowly and carefully, and know that we're here and we care. |
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Sometimes I forget that we have to remind each other of this salient fact. We do sometimes take each other for granted. Somebody kick me once in awhile when I do.
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Yeah, but then you have to disinfect your bathtub.
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And again
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So, there are seven of us kids and everybody knows about everyone then. Except those twins. The younger brother and I pressured bio-mom for info on them and she stonewalled us saying she made their adoptive parents the same promise. She did however tell us they were not two boys but a girl and boy. As luck would have it, the girl tracked down and contacted our oldest sister in April, so they have surfaced also. After visiting with the newly surfaced sister, we realized we spent most of our lives 20 miles from each other and didn't know it. We are headed to Wichita tomorrow to irritate daughters and spoil grandkids for a couple weeks. The big Sis gave me another surprise. She organized a get together in Wichita and they are all flying and driving in. Including bio-mom and possibly bio-dad. It should be a good thing and I am pretty happy that we will get the chance to meet everyone and get some pic's. So, a fairly improbable, fairly happy ending should occur. I never thought I would get there. |
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That's great news Greg. Enjoy your weekend with your new family. Pics will be a must of course.
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Congratulations. Adoptions have come a looooong way.
Just another damn Dave Fluent in Pidgin Cigar Spanish
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Great to hear this.
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Awesome news!
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Very glad for you it turned out to be a "Happy Ending".
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I'm enjoying this for a number of reasons.
Good on you.
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Most sincere wishes for the continued happiness of you all.
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